Friday, April 27, 2012

Around the web...again...

Well, here's the third installment of "around the web"!

The Flight From Conversation
This interesting article was posted by my friend Ryan Heathers on Facebook as well as by Tim Challies on his blog.

Of "Dad Moms" and "Man Fails": An Essay on Men and Awesomeness
This came from the on-line version of the Journal of Biblical Manhood and Womanhood.  Thought-provoking, especially the paragraphs under "A Better Way..." and the conclusion.

"Dementia" by Owl City, featuring Mark Hoppus
Song of the week!  The new Owl City album comes out this summer and I'm soooooo excited!

Prodigal Magazine
A Christian e-magazine.  I haven't read a lot of the articles on this site, but they seem to be pretty good...

Homemade Soft Pretzels
If I had known pretzels were this easy to make, I would have made them a long time ago!

Seven Ways To Pray for Your Prayer Life
This could be useful to most of us... ;)

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Truth, love, grace, and forgiveness

Tim Keller, who has been mentioned more than once (or twice) on this blog, wrote The Meaning of Marriage with his wife Kathy, and I am about three-quarters of the way done with it.  I think it's great, and I highly recommend it.  I thought I'd add this quote that applies to all relationships, not just marriage.  The context of this quote explains the need for truth, love, and grace in your relationship.
"What does it take to know the power of grace?  First it takes humility.  If you have trouble forgiving someone, it is at least partly because deep in your heart you are thinking, 'I would never do anything like that!'  As long as you feel superior to someone, feel like you are a much better kind of person, you will find it very hard if not impossible to forgive.  If you stay superior and disdainful of the person, truth will eat up love.  You will only criticize, and not in a way that the person can hear.  You will be too scornful and harsh."
-Tim Keller, The Meaning of Marriage

Friday, April 20, 2012

Around the web...2

One week ago it was raining buckets, and kids came to class literally dripping from the rain.  Several students removed their shoes to wring out their socks, and one boy sat out in the hallway, a puddle slowing encompassing him and his drenched backpack.  Flashes of lightning and cracks of thunder interrupted the class as they tried to complete their math packets.

Not this week.  This week I am sitting in my little house drinking lemonade as the thermometer registers 81 degrees inside.  Summer is coming and with it all sorts of fun stuff!

Anyway, here are some links from this week:

A Letter to My Children About Marriage
My old roommate Jen posted this on Facebook, and I thought it was very good.

Broccoli Cheddar Twice-Baked Potatoes
This recipe was really good.  I added butter, onions, and bell pepper.  I'm going to have it again tonight!

Pixel of Ink
Kind of scrounging around for links this week.  Amos goes to this website, and I check it every once in a while, for free or nearly-free books for his Kindle.  I've downloaded three books so far, though I have yet to read any of them. ;)

That's all for this week.  I'm off to the library to pick up Jeeves and Wooster!

EDIT:
One more link from my friend Heather.  She wrote one of the articles in this Christian education/missions e-magazine.

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Distracting

Words are distracting.  At least they are to me.

I don't know what it is about words and letters, but very often I find myself reading them over and over and over again.  We used to keep packing boxes behind our old couch, and the edges of the boxes would peek over the back of the couch.  Every time I sat on the couch to talk with Amos, I would inevitably be distracted by the words and phrases that were only partially visible.  What did the rest of that sentence say?  Could it say this?  Why weren't the lines of text centered?  Which words would make the lines centered on the box edge?  We finally moved the boxes when we got a new couch, which makes talking on the couch much easier.  A few months ago Amos and I were sitting in our friend's office at church, discussing the direction of the college group.  I listened to and talked with Amos and Paul, but I still found myself trying to read all of the titles on Paul's bookshelves.  In a third example, I was having dinner with a new friend and reading the words "North Face" on her pink sweatshirt over and over again, trying to come up with a pattern in the letters or a different way to arrange the two words.  It was very distracting.

I suppose some people would call that OCD.

I just love words.  I love to read Psalms because of the eloquent truths.
"I would have lost hope unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living."
or other places in Scripture, "Christ in you, the hope of glory."

I read all sorts of books, and every once in a while I wish I could write like their authors.  Mind you, I don't want to write in a flowery style, talking about sun-dappled lanes and fiery drops of gold glistening on dewy roses.  That is just a little too weird and forced.

But I just love words, and I love books by authors who know how to use them.  My most recent "word" investment cost me just $0.50.

I walked to our neighborhood thrift store on Saturday, intending to look at the children's books to see if there were any we could take to India.  This thrift store is even cheaper than Goodwill, charging only twenty-five cents for a paperback children's book!  I found two autobiographies by Roald Dahl: Boy: Tales of Childhood and Going Solo.  I'd never read any books by Roald Dahl, but I remember my dad reading Ross and Scott James and the Giant Peach when we were little (I'm not sure why I wasn't included; I was probably too young).  I never read any Dahl books myself, though, because I was usually creeped out by the illustrations on the front covers.

Anyway, I bought the two books after skimming only a few pages.  I figured if they weren't appropriate for the kids in India, I could always keep them myself.  I started Boy on Saturday and I finished Going Solo today; I loved them.  It amazes me how so many different people can use so many of the same words in so many different ways.  Roald Dahl was very good at crafting exciting, creative, hilarious sentences out ordinary, everyday words.  I'm interested to see if his fiction is as well-written as his two autobiographies.

Excerpts from Boy: Tales of Childhood

The Great Mouse Plot
"When writing about oneself, one must strive to be truthful.  Truth is more important than modesty.  I must tell you, therefore, that it was I and I alone who had the idea for the great and daring Mouse Plot.  We all have our moments of brilliance and glory, and this was mine."

Goat's tobacco
"When I was about nine, the ancient half-sister got engaged to be married."

Saturday, April 07, 2012

Poor Zeus

Well, I'm sure you remember our wonderful little fishy friend, Zeus.

I'm sad to say that Zeus (or Zeusy, as he was affectionately referred to) is no longer with us.

Zeus contracted this disease called ick.  Weird name.  He had this filmy white stuff trailing off his fins, so I went to Walmart and got him some medicine.  It seemed to clear it up after a few weeks, but overachiever that I am, I kept slipping a little bit into his water, just to make sure that he was actually healed.

I don't know if I overmedicated him or if he died from something else.

Either way, the poor fish is dead and gone, residing in the giant fish bowl in the sky with several other fish who used to belong to various friends.

I put the fish bowl away; it was sad to keep looking at it, knowing that I would never again see his tiny, happy fish face swim by.

RIP, Zeusy.

Zeus, aka Zeusy